Three More Steps to Eliminate the Need for Self-Improvement

Three More Steps to Eliminate the Need for
Self-Improvement

1.    Eliminate judgment
Learn to stop seeing things as good or bad. The tendency to make a judgment about an experience is all too common and just a habit. We suggest here that you begin by consciously changing your habit of making judgments. Instead see everything as a learning experience. Whether you have learned that something is not pleasurable or something is pleasurable it is still learning.
2.    Enjoy the experience and Acceptance
Every experience you have creates wisdom that you will have for the rest of your life. Acceptance of these experiences and knowing that they have created this wisdom allows you to expand your awareness. With expanded awareness the ability to change and make conscious choices becomes more prevalent in your life. As this becomes more prevalent in your life you will also discover that you have created these experiences either consciously or unconsciously.
3.    Become a Creator
Once you have discovered that you have created these experiences either consciously or unconsciously you are on the road to become a creator. Now that you know this, the next thing you should be aware of is that you are not only a creator but you have become a conscious creator. Up until now people have used “laws” like the Law of Attraction to explain their creations. When you realize that you are the creator of all of your experiences laws like the Law of Attraction are no longer relevant. What now becomes relevant is your own personal responsibility as the creator of your existence and experience and not some force outside of you.



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10 Facts about Emotions

10 Facts about Emotions

1.    Emotions themselves are not real!
2.    Emotions are a result of a belief system that judges experiences.
3.    Emotions are labels that people use as a way to define and communicate feelings that go on within the body and mind in order that they may be understood.
4.    Expression of emotions are the result of a belief system
5.    All human beings have emotions
6.    Human beings tend to be governed by their emotions
7.    Emotions are not just for women
8.    Emotions tend to create unconscious behaviors
9.    Emotions do not make you weak
10.  Emotions are misunderstood 


 The expressions of emotions are the result of a belief system that has become habitual in the display in which a person believes they must/should act based upon experiences that bring about feelings inside of them. These expressions then become “normal” and often become automatic.

Quite often people mistake expressive behaviors as an emotion. Emotions are the cause and the root of expressive behaviors. Expressive behaviors of particular emotions may appear to be common but are not normal.
Emotions are what drive the expressions of the emotions. The expression of emotions does not make a person emotional!
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The Dark Side of Effort

Effort: the work necessary to do something.

Things are an effort when you must do things that you do not want to do, are not confident at doing or are afraid to do.

Effort is only required when you want something but you do not have the drive to find a solution, acquire or accomplish that which you desire.

You only need to put forth effort when you perceive something that is hard. And the only reason that you perceive something is hard is when you know you have to do something that you fear, are not good at, or do not feel like actively participating in.

The “work “necessary to do something is only work because there is resistance to doing it. If there were no resistance to doing something it would be effortless and joyful.

Where do you create “work” in your life rather than effortless joy?

Soul Memory and The Fear of Death

The fear of death is often difficult to understand for many reasons. One is that it may have nothing to do with your human mind or experience. This would make it unexplainable to the human understanding. Sometimes in the human understanding it makes no sense to have these unexplained fears.

 The fear of death may also be experienced at the soul level. The soul is still in the experience of separation and duality. While the soul is experiencing this separateness and still recording life's events from duality/polarity it records the many traumatic experiences that it encountered in the physical body. The soul contains the memories of all of these traumas and can also record fear. This fear then is inexplicably experienced by the human understanding. When the soul has been anchored fully in a human body and had many traumatic physical experiences it will also record the interpretation of those experiences. One of those interpretations is fear. Along with this fear is also recorded the reactions to things that are feared. This then brings along into a new life experience, unconscious behavior patterns that are not explainable in present day.

Death commonly is experienced as a traumatic and fearful event. In the history of the world there have been many wars and very poor medical practices that have led to many painful deaths. The fear and pain encountered during those times is often  anticipated or re-experienced  even if the current death is not painful. This also could possibly create a fear of birth or being alive and in a human body. Based upon these traumas and fears the soul may not want to reattach itself to the body based on anticipation of re-encountering these painful traumas. In truth what is actually occurring is the memories are being re-experienced over and over whether they are actually happening or not. These fears may also create events and circumstances that cause this experience to occur over and over again.

If you happen to have the fear of death or any other inexplicable fears maybe this post will assist you in making sense of them.

Unconditional Acceptance

Many people speak of unconditional love, it is a rare thing that occurs. We think that part of the trouble and difficulty is because of the common definition of the word love. In the human mind love means something that is not what was intended by the ancient ones who spoke of love. Human love is different than Love.

We would suggest that learning and becoming unconditional acceptance will set the stage for a greater understanding of Love.

Unconditional acceptance is what Love is about and is required for you to move forward in your growth and enjoyment of life.

Unconditional Acceptance includes but is not limited to the following.

Becoming Unconditionally Accepting of:

•    yourself
•     others
•    all events
•    the world as it is
•    that anything is possible
•    your choices and behaviors
•    everyone has their own truth
•    other people's choices and behaviors
•    there are many things you are unaware of

You must be mindful of the difference between neutrality and indifference as they appear the same to the limited ego personality. Unconditional acceptance is often experienced as the state of neutrality. Unconditional acceptance is free of judgment. Because of this the state of neutrality or unconditional acceptance is often judged by the mind as being cold, because there are no emotional feelings. This state of no emotions is a reflection of neutrality a step toward Unconditional Love.

Knowledge Is Power

For this writing understand that your head is a metaphor for your ego/ personality or humanness and your heart is a metaphor for your spirit. The metaphor when your head and heart merge is a parallel for your spirit and your ego/ personality merging which allows you to have conscious wisdom in the world of form.

The head seeks knowledge in order to validate itself. In relation to the metaphor above, the heart is your spirit and with your spirit everything is known there is no need for knowledge. The head being a metaphor for your limited ego personality and your ego personality seeks validation that it exists. In order to receive this validation or create its own reality it needs knowledge. With knowledge the ego personality gains and maintains validation. The phrase “knowledge is power” really means that the more knowledge you have the more powerful your ego/ personality structure becomes.

Knowledge is the power of limitation!
Wisdom is the freedom from limitation!

Knowledge is the power through which the ego personality survives. Spirit (the heart) has no need for knowledge. It's awareness comes through experience and beingness. Experience is wisdom and wisdom is the beingness of your spirit.

Aspirations

The single greatest aspiration you can have in life is to have the desire and willingness to find out who you really are. To find out what your own spirit/soul wants to be or experience. That's the only true aspiration and the only aspiration you need. All other aspirations are based upon the world, programs and beliefs systems.These aspirations are all temporal and in essence false.

Until you are tired of keeping yourself numb or living in the patterned behaviors you have accepted as your truth you will never be able to reach the true aspiration of becoming/discovering who you truly are. The causes of your numbness may be eating, working, relationships, drugs, alcohol, feeling important, feeling loved, wanting to be successful, cars, etc. As long as the desire to be or do something other than discovering your true essence your life will never be truly complete or fulfilling.

Often times this is reflected in a seeming emptiness within that is unexplainable. This feeling of emptiness is at times so unbearable people do not know what to do. Quite often to fill this emptiness people continue with the busyness or these forms of numbing to the aspiration of becoming, your true essence. The irony here is that the emptiness is not truly emptiness. The emptiness feels empty because you are numb. Sometimes it feels empty because you are trying to fill the sense of your true essence with all of these busy things. Because at some level you know that these busy things are empty.
 This can lead to life feeling shallow, superficial and meaningless. When all the things that you believe you are supposed to be no longer keep you busy enough to ignore the emptiness there is often a search for inner meaning.

The emptiness is not truly an emptiness. It is perceived of as emptiness because all of the things you believed you were supposed to be do not work in the truth of your essence. The inability to distinguish the difference between who you believe you were supposed to be and who you really are is what creates this perceived sense of emptiness. If you are feeling empty inside or have ever felt this sense of emptiness, we suggest it is then time for you to aspire to be who you really are. Discover your true spiritual essence and the emptiness will disappear and you will see that it was all an illusion. You will discover that it was only there because the real you was not.

Meaningful Relationships

Many people are searching for meaningful relationships. Some reasons for this search are, to complete themselves, to feel fulfilled, to place their love on to someone or be loved by someone etc. These are but a few common reasons for people getting into relationships. Of course there are many more reasons, as many as people can imagine. What most people don't understand is that you cannot have a full meaningful relationship with another human being until you had or begin to have a meaningful relationship with yourself.

The first step to having a meaningful relationship with someone else is to have one with you. This means going on an inner journey of self-discovery. In this process the object is to learn about your patterned behaviors and beliefs systems that contribute to any or all challenges you have had in the past and may still have, in having relationships with other human beings.

Four steps to a meaningful relationship: 

1.    Self-discovery - inner exploration of your beliefs patterned behaviors and attitudes towards other people.

2.     Change - find processes that assist you in making changes in your behaviors beliefs and attitudes.

3.     Unconditional acceptance of yourself - once you have discovered some of your behaviors, Beliefs and attitudes in regards to relationships, accept them. Know that these are just programs that can be changed. Change the ones that don't work in regards to having  meaningful relationships and keep the ones that work.

4.    Love yourself - learning to love/unconditionally accept yourself and be happy with who you are, is required for you to have a meaningful relationship with someone else.

Who Am I?

Does all the old and familiar not seem to work anymore? Do you feel driven to do things that you do not have interest in? Does everything seem to have changed but yet you cannot understand why?

These questions and more are occurring every day for everyone. With all the new energetic changes and the internal shifts going on within each and every one of you the old does not seem to work anymore. Your old habits though, seem to want to still operate. This can often lead to confusion and misunderstanding of what you are supposed to be doing. We would say to you what you are supposed to be doing is discovering your own spirit and what you are actually here for. Being committed to this is the main thing that you are supposed to be doing.

Now mind you there is no, supposed to be. But for our understanding in the direction of yourself there is a supposed to be of being your self. Your divine self is attempting to integrate with your human self. The old ways that you have been in the past will not seem to be right and yet nothing seems to be right for you at this time. For those of you experiencing this understand that this is a pretty common experience for many people. You may encounter the same thing with food. You'll have a desire for food yet nothing seems to satisfy your desires. Nothing you eat seems to be quite right and yet at the same time too much. This is all about the changes. This is nothing to be concerned about or worry about.

We would say to you for the food cravings, try spices. Spices and spicy things seem to help with this as well as assist the body. As for your own direction, be patient your answers will arrive. You are going through a time of readjustment and during this time it only creates more confusion for your human mind if you try to do things that don't feel right. Do what's necessary to maintain your functional lifestyle and patiently await your new direction.

Personal Armageddon

Your personal Armageddon is when your old programs and belief systems are confronted by your new consciousness. You must choose are you going to be the new or are you going to try and hold on to the old ways that you have been so comfortable and familiar with. Are you going to live in polarity consciousness or are you going to live in the unity consciousness? To live in unity consciousness simply means the knowing-ness that all is one and that your decisions and behaviors affect the consciousness of everyone on the planet. All of your judgments and opinions of others are opinions that you have of yourself somewhere.

With 2010 being the year of great change and 2012 with all its rumors fast approaching us is time to understand your own personal Armageddon. Yes 2012 is the peak time for great change but it is not the beginning of this change nor is it the end. 2012 is the time in which the new frequencies of change peak on the planet. You have seen some of mother Earth's changes already beginning and they have been ongoing for a decade now. Only with the acknowledgment and conscious awareness of these changes coming are people actually noticing them. Large scale earthquakes continually occur beneath the ocean unbeknownst to most people.

Isn't this the same your own personal experiences? There are constant rumblings beneath your consciousness about the need for change unbeknownst to most people’s conscious awareness. You see, the Earth is a metaphor for your own personal experience. The Earth is processing just like you are. When the earth rumbles and shakes, when hurricanes or tornadoes occur it would be good for you to reflect upon yourself to see where the same things are occurring within yourself. These are all energies of change. When you focus on your own inner changes in rumblings and do what is necessary to make the changes your spirit is asking for you also assist the Earth in lessening the amount of changes she will have to go through.


Things to do to make your personal Armageddon easier:
•    do a life review - take a look at what you are still doing, feeling or thinking that is not conducive to a loving heart

•    spend more quiet time with yourself - meditation, still time, walks in nature

•    change behaviors that are not loving

•    look for the causes of behaviors and feelings that are not loving

•    make a commitment to yourself to become unconditionally accepting of everything that you are

•    become more conscious in all ways - conscious of your behaviors, of your feelings, of your environments and of things nonphysical

Personal Armageddon is merely a way for us to communicate with a common language that is occurring today. Often people hear the word Armageddon and feel some sort of dread or fear that something terrible will happen. We would like to tell you that nothing terrible has to happen. There are times of discomfort because the ego personality and physical body are making changes as new frequencies of consciousness are introduced.

The beauty of all this is that as you go through this it actually becomes easier. Many of your spiritual gifts will begin to come through into your daily life. You will see that many new technologies will begin to emerge in the next few years. These new technologies are reflections of what you can do without gadgets and are only the beginning of what is ahead.

Please visit our website www.masteringtheartofbeinghuman.com as we are making many changes. We are making more articles and audios available to you. Remember all the information we share with you is simply for you to digest and feel what is right to your spirit.

Ascension and Human Skills

There's a lot of talk these days about ascension or ascending. We want to clarify the idea of ascending. Ascension is simply the raising of frequency. There is an old belief system that revolves around an idea that ascension means to leave the body. This was the old way it is not the way it is intended for the Aquarian age. Ascension in the New Age is related to raising frequencies of denseness and limitation to frequencies of freedom and the reuniting of your spirit with your human consciousness.

The frequencies of your current ego/personality are related to belief systems and soul memories. In the ascension process these beliefs systems and soul memories need to be neutralized or changed. By neutralizing or changing your belief systems and soul memories you automatically raise your frequencies. This allows you to become more connected with your own spirit. For the average person that is not on a “spiritual journey” this will be experienced by simply changing the way that they live, think and experience the world.

For people who are into personal growth they will experience it something like trying to change their beliefs systems, doing therapy, becoming more aware of themselves and the idea of patterned behaviors and/or being pulled toward the spiritual direction. For those already on a spiritual journey they will experience everything already mentioned as well as an understanding of energy, intuitive/psychic abilities, expanded consciousness and the sense of the greater picture. For those of you on the spiritual journey a major pitfall is ignoring your humanness in your human skills.

Many people on the spiritual path ignore these things is seeing them as not as important as spiritual stuff. We would tell you that they are not separate that your spiritual stuff and your humanness stuff are equally important. To become a master of your own ascension is to be a master of both spiritual skills and human skills until you have integrated them both into one the whole experience. When you have mastered your human and your spiritual skills you will be a unified being.

This will parallel to the unity consciousness that is coming to this planet and the consciousness of everyone on it. By you living in the unity consciousness yourself you ground this energy for the entire planet. It is not about leaving the planet to understand your spirit it is about your spirit fully and turning your humanness and becoming a spiritual human/spirit human.