Gulf Oil Spill

Let us remember that we are all on this planet together.  Many people want to point fingers and blame, and yes, we recognize that much of the problem is caused by greed, government and politics, but we must say to you, do not focus on this!
Focus on making changes, whatever you can do, wherever you can do it.  Make changes!

•    Influence the people that can assist in making the changes.

•    Will do what you can to assist in these changes occurring, but most importantly…..

•    Make parallel changes within your own life, within your own body

Knowing that you are part of the whole planet and that the planet itself is one being, as you the human being are part of this planet, your energy is in effect also and affects the whole.

By taking care of yourself and your own personal life as well as assisting in the global life in some way shape or form, you will affect the whole planetary change.  It is important for you to take care of your own life, your own inner life.

What is going on with you again is simply mirrored in the outside world.  The oil spill is a parallel.  As this oil spill is about change and adjustment, it reflects the change that is required within your own personal life and inner growth.  It is time for you to make change.

As you make the changes within your own psyche, within your own emotional life, your own mental life, your own physical life, you will affect the whole and again assist in the earth as it changes.

As always thank you for visiting us and your comments are welcome. 

Love Your Child with All Your Heart

Love yourself with all of your heart. By doing this you set the example for your child so that they can love themselves. In doing so, you show your child that they have the right and the ability to love themselves.

There is no greater act of love!

When your child sees you loving and caring for yourself they will know that they can do this for themselves also. By giving them the space and the living example they will know how much you really love them!
Children learn by example and use what has been modeled for them. If you show them that you do not love yourself with all of your heart they will know, that they do not deserve to be loved. How so, you might ask.

A true loving heart is one that has loved them self first and shares that love with others. Sharing or radiating love is different than giving love.

By showing the child that you do not have love in your heart for yourself and that only others matter, they will then reflect and adopt this behavior as well as this belief system. What you teach them by not loving yourself is that they do not matter only loving others matters.

Teaching a child to love them self first is the sign of a truly loving heart. This truly loving heart is showing them that you love them so much that your personal needs are not involved in the equation, that your love is absolute and pure. The key to teaching this to your child is you learning to love yourself without conditions.

Traditionally people have been taught that the expression and display of love is the most important way to communicate it. But in truth love is a feeling, love is not a display nor a communication. You can feel if someone loves you or not, no matter what their words are. This is especially true for children. They feel your love, no matter what you do or say. As they become older they begin to understand the concept of love as it is explained, but this does not change their feeling experience of what love is.

How is this related to loving myself first you might ask. Well let us tell you, loving yourself first makes you a Hub of Love. They will feel the love that is inside you and no matter what your behaviors are they will know in their hearts that they are loved because they feel the love in your heart.
Please go  to our sister blog - My Unique Child - for more on children.
Remember:

Love Your Child with All of Your Heart

Three More Steps to Eliminate the Need for Self-Improvement

Three More Steps to Eliminate the Need for
Self-Improvement

1.    Eliminate judgment
Learn to stop seeing things as good or bad. The tendency to make a judgment about an experience is all too common and just a habit. We suggest here that you begin by consciously changing your habit of making judgments. Instead see everything as a learning experience. Whether you have learned that something is not pleasurable or something is pleasurable it is still learning.
2.    Enjoy the experience and Acceptance
Every experience you have creates wisdom that you will have for the rest of your life. Acceptance of these experiences and knowing that they have created this wisdom allows you to expand your awareness. With expanded awareness the ability to change and make conscious choices becomes more prevalent in your life. As this becomes more prevalent in your life you will also discover that you have created these experiences either consciously or unconsciously.
3.    Become a Creator
Once you have discovered that you have created these experiences either consciously or unconsciously you are on the road to become a creator. Now that you know this, the next thing you should be aware of is that you are not only a creator but you have become a conscious creator. Up until now people have used “laws” like the Law of Attraction to explain their creations. When you realize that you are the creator of all of your experiences laws like the Law of Attraction are no longer relevant. What now becomes relevant is your own personal responsibility as the creator of your existence and experience and not some force outside of you.



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7 Steps That Form Emotions

The following is a simplified explanation of how emotions are formed and the process that you go through in order to have an emotion.
When you understand how emotions are formed and their process you may change your experience of them and make a conscious choice in deciding if you want to have them.


The Formation of an Emotion
1.    an experience occurs
2.    a feeling occurs
3.    a judgment happens
4.    belief system is established
5.    an associated emotional label is attached to the feeling
6.    a thought process or behavior is assigned to the emotional label/feeling/thought
7.    an internal feeling is repeated with the judgment applied to the behavior. An expression in some form is demonstrated or occurs. (sometimes the expression is internal only)

The Process of Emotion
1.    an experience triggers a feeling
2.    an associated emotional label is attached to the feeling (based on the belief system established during the formation of those emotions)
3.     a thought process or behavior is assigned to the emotional label and feeling
4.     a thought, behavior or expression is then demonstrated or occurs.

Emotions are personal experience and each individual experiences them similarly yet differently. Emotions are based in family, cultural, human patterned belief systems.

What we hope you get out of this is that emotions are optional. You may have the ones you like and change the ones you do not. Life is a choice and how you experience it is your decision!

As always we welcome your comments and opinions.

10 Facts about Emotions

10 Facts about Emotions

1.    Emotions themselves are not real!
2.    Emotions are a result of a belief system that judges experiences.
3.    Emotions are labels that people use as a way to define and communicate feelings that go on within the body and mind in order that they may be understood.
4.    Expression of emotions are the result of a belief system
5.    All human beings have emotions
6.    Human beings tend to be governed by their emotions
7.    Emotions are not just for women
8.    Emotions tend to create unconscious behaviors
9.    Emotions do not make you weak
10.  Emotions are misunderstood 


 The expressions of emotions are the result of a belief system that has become habitual in the display in which a person believes they must/should act based upon experiences that bring about feelings inside of them. These expressions then become “normal” and often become automatic.

Quite often people mistake expressive behaviors as an emotion. Emotions are the cause and the root of expressive behaviors. Expressive behaviors of particular emotions may appear to be common but are not normal.
Emotions are what drive the expressions of the emotions. The expression of emotions does not make a person emotional!
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